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3 self-care tips for spouses of injured people

When your spouse sustains a serious injury, whether through a car crash or a workplace accident, your top priority is seeking treatment and financial compensation for your loved one. With all your attention on your spouse's needs, you have likely put your own needs on the back burner.

However, this pattern often results in resentment or depression. Give yourself some TLC in the following ways.

1. Ask for help

Trying to do everything on your own will only lead to burnout and damage your mental health. Have the courage to ask for help, whether it means assistance with caregiving tasks or a listening ear when you need to vent. Reaching out is not a sign of weakness, but one of strength and wisdom. Create a support network of family, friends and professionals (such as a therapist and/or nursing aide) you can rely on for your various needs.

2. Take time out for you

If you want to better care for others, you first have to care for yourself. It is not selfish, but healthy. Find activities that rejuvenate you and bring you joy. Avoid anything that adds more stress or negativity into your life. Great options include:

  • Meditating
  • Refining or expanding your hobbies
  • Going out with friends
  • Reading
  • Creating something, such as art or woodwork
  • Getting a massage
  • Journaling
  • Taking a luxurious bath

Do not underestimate the basics, either. Physical activity, sleep, healthy food and hydration are all simple, inexpensive and effective ways to improve your well-being. 

3. Communicate

A very damaging habit is to keep emotions bottled up inside you. Perhaps you do not want to hurt your spouse's feelings for something that was not his or her fault. Maybe you do not feel you have the right to complain. After all, you are not injured, and at least your spouse is alive, right?

The reality is that your feelings matter, and holding them in only lets them build up. Prevent a breakdown by sharing your emotions with your spouse in a compassionate yet honest manner. You two are still partners in life, dedicated to supporting and loving one another. Authenticity and vulnerability will only strengthen your marriage and help you work through this difficult time more effectively.

What Our Clients Say About Us

  • "Committed To My Cause"

    I was struck by a car while cycling and severely, almost fatally injured. A team of excellent medical professionals performed complicated and extensive surgical and medical procedures as part of a successful effort to restore my health....-Jeff D.

  • "Could not have made a better choice"

    We found Mark [Mathys] through the web after an auto accident in October 2011. While selecting someone you don't know to represent you can be a gamble, we could not have made a better choice....- Dave

  • "Very satisfied"

    Mark [Mathys] is very professional. He responds almost immediately, via email, to any question, comment or concern I have and if he is not able to respond right away, he will let me know. I have been very satisfied with Mark so far and I am happy to be his client.-Jennifer

  • "Easy to talk to"

    Mr. Mathys and Mr. Schneid were very professional and easy to talk to. Prior to working with them, my wife and I had no real experience with the legal system beyond a house closing, yet Mr. Mathys and Mr. Schneid explained the whole process to us very well. I knew that whenever I had a concern about our case or the legal system in general I could call their office or send an email and receive answers the same day...-Larry

  • "Provided very wise advice"

    I've dealt with attorneys on a variety of issues, almost all of them since leaving college and entering the workplace. Mr. Mathys was the first attorney I had any real experience with, and I was impressed then and remain so. He provided very wise advice and always kept me informed. In the end, he delivered a favorable result. I recommend him highly.- Tyler D.

  • "In-depth knowledge of the law"

    Mark [Schneid] is an excellent and skilled attorney and demonstrated in-depth knowledge of the law when he helped settle my dog bite lawsuit resulting from a traumatic incident. He explained what was needed of me and how I should handle the situation in a professional manner.- Karen K.

  • "They went to bat for me"

    Not long ago I was involved in a car accident where I was hit by a gravel truck at an intersection. After I called Mathys & Schneid, even though I didn't have a very large case, they made me feel like I was one of their most important cases. They went to bat for me with the trucking company's insurance and got me a settlement. I would definitely recommend them to my family and friends.-Dan H.

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